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Did I Really Buy That?

January 7, 2013

By Cathryn Cade
Guest post Jamie Brazil Blog
(Oregon romance writer)

Now this is an ongoing battle. Right, girlfriends?

We are constantly bombarded with the latest fashions, guaranteed to make us look younger, slimmer, prettier and more with it. Whatever ‘it’ is.

Wear this glittery full-body lycra jumpsuit with padded shoulders, and you too can be as beautiful as this model! (Hey, she lives on celery and yogurt, she fainted right after this photo session, and then we air-brushed the be-jayzus out of her picture, but never mind all that!)

I managed to avoid that jumpsuit, but I did have the denim version. I also had a pink satin dress with power shoulders, a la Dallas. But fashions change, and one decade’s ‘with it’ is the next’s ‘what the hell is that?’ Needless to say neither of these items still grace the back of my closet.

But I still buy fashion faux pas, items that look great on other women, but not a tall, plump blonde with quiet coloring. The brightly flowered silk sweater? Ouch!  I could have posed as a piece of furniture. The snug T-shirt with all the Lycra? Yeah, enough said about my midsection. The swimsuit I’ve been going to fit into for ten years? Not gonna happen in this lifetime.

I’ve finally learned to have a shopping bag open in the basement for items just such as these. When it fills up, off it goes to a shelter or Goodwill, where I pray someone will wear those nearly-new items to look and feel fabulous.

I’ve made peace with my shape, as much as women bombarded by modern advertising ever can. They have a vested interest in keeping us dissatisfied. I know how to dress, and where to shop to find things that fit and flatter. Coldwater Creek, Lands End and Nordstrom’s (sale racks) are my shopping BFFs.

But I’m not perfect yet, and I’m impulsive as all get-out. So I’ll keep that shopping bag open for the fashion leftovers and faux pas to come!

How about you? What items do you need to be strong, and just get rid of?

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THE RESOLUTION TOUR – January 1 – 9, 2013

Maggie Jaimeson – Take a Vacation

Jessa Slade – Get Organized

Paty Jager – Volunteerism

Linda Mercury – Creating a Literary (or Creative) Life

Jenna Bayley-Burke – Eat Healthier

Cassiel Knight – No More Procrastination

Cathryn Cade – Take Time for those OTHER Creative Passions

Susan Lute – Reduce Stress: Find and Follow Your Bliss


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Discuss this article

Fiona January 7, 2013

Buyers regret strikes me by surprise every time I get away from myself and have a good fun buyers spree. Would be a good resolution to make.

Kim January 7, 2013

The best one is reduce stress. You can pledge to go on vacations are lose pounds but in truth be told everyone if you are stressed your resolutions will not last. The good ol’ burn out comes quickly to our lives when we do too much or choose not to slow down. Start with stress, deal with that, then work to step two. You will just love the progress you made the more smiles to come from it.

M. Baskins January 7, 2013

My vow. Better use of my time.

Mary Spooner January 8, 2013

More family time.

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